5 Ways to Get Over A “Failure”

“I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy, i’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.”

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In life, failure is something that we experienced. It’s not an easy situation, especially when you have failed for so many times. It takes courage to be able to try again. It’s definitely not a good thing when people can’t get over the failure. Especially when they have started to lose hope and faith in life. Even worst, it could lead to stress and depression. Therefore, it’s crucial to move on from a failure. It’s okay to fail sometimes, but it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world. Here are 5 ways on how to get over a failure.


Look for inspirations – successful people mostly failed first
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If we try to look at successful people, most of the time they failed first. Before they become successful, they have been through so many rough times. They don’t just be successful straight away, it takes time for them to be in their position right now. They have failed so many times and face so many obstacles but they never give up and that’s what makes them successful.

“Nothing worth having comes easy.”


There are so many things you could learn from a mistake
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Lesson learned. YES, a failure could teach you so many things. This moment definitely will make you be more careful next time. At least now, you know what to do and what not to do. You won’t repeat the same mistakes, or you will try harder next time. There must be something you could learn from a mistake.

“Sometimes the most important life lessons are the ones we end up learning the hard way.”


Fall seven times, stand up eight
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Never give up because great things take time. If you’re in a bad situation it’s simply because life is testing you. Don’t give up only because you have failed this time and don’t compare your situations with other people. Some people are lucky enough to get their success straight away, but some don’t and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean that you’re not good enough, may be it’s simply because of the timing. Sometimes, if you get what you want instantly, you won’t learn many things. The feelings will be different between – when you get something straight away – with – when you have to wait to get what you want. Don’t ever give up. Remember that you were given this life because you’re strong enough to live it.

“Life is tough, my darling, but so are you.”


Trust the magic of new beginnings
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It’s time to get over the past and move on. May be it’s just not the right thing for you or may be because something big is coming for you. Whatever the reason is, it is in the past – it has happened – and there is nothing you could do to change it. Close the book because it has ended. What you could do is to move forward with your life. The past is in the past. Don’t bring the negative energy from the past into your current life – or even to your future. It’s time to create a new beginning and trust the magic in it.

“Do not give up, the beginning is always the hardest.”


If It’s means to be, it will be
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Always believe that if it means to be, it will be. Everything happened for a reason. May be you failed this time because it’s just not the right direction for you, or may be there is something bigger waiting for you. Sometimes we don’t fit in one condition, but it doesn’t mean we are not good at it. It simply because it’s not for us and that’s okay. There are still so many options and opportunities in life. You don’t have to worry about it because if it means to be, you will eventually find your way to get it.

“What’s meant to be will always find its way.”

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“There is so much beauty that you haven’t seen yet, don’t give up now.”


Author: Valentina Laura

A dreamer & a lover.

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