5 Ways to Stay Positive

“Train your mind to see the good in every situation.”

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Nowadays, living in this world is getting hard to stay positive. Especially when you are surrounded by people that tend to bring negativity to your life. We have too many things to do at once, and sometimes life could be hard. When life is getting hard, we tend to see the negative side of life and make it hard for us to stay positive. It’s upsetting because actually life is beautiful and there are so many positive things in life. Here are five ways on how to stay positive.


Be Grateful
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Sometimes, we forget to see the positive side of our life, especially when life put us in a very hard situation. If we take time for a while, life is actually pretty amazing. There are so many things that happen in life. All good and bad things are a part of life. Bad things taught you not to fall for the same mistakes, while good thing teaches you that there are happiness and hope in life. Be simply grateful every day for what we have. We might not be as rich as Bill Gates, or not as beautiful as Adriana Lima, or not as famous as Kim Kardashian – but there are so many beautiful things in our life that we could be grateful for. Life is not about being the most neither or about being the number one, life is about living your life to the fullest and it doesn’t need to be perfect. Be your own kind of beauty, don’t be like the rest of them, because the power of you could change the world.

“A grateful heart is a magnet for miracles.”


Live healthily and smile
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Take a deep breathe and smile! It might sound a bit cheeky, but smiling is very important. Based on scientific research, a smile could give a positive influence to our body. It’s the simplest thing to do in order to boost our mood. Moreover, it’s also important to maintain a healthy lifestyle. What we eat is definitely will impact our bodies, both physically and mentally.

“Use your smile to change the world, don’t let the world change your smile.”


Accept the fact that life is not always easy, but it’s worth living
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Life is not always easy. There are so many obstacles we will face in life, but it doesn’t mean that life is not worth living. Remember that life is full of beautiful things, it just depends on whether we could see it or not.

“Because when you stop and look around, this life is pretty amazing.”


Instead of complaining, start improving
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If there are certain things you don’t like in your life, instead of complaining, start improving. Try to change the things you can change and accept the things you can’t change. Believe me, when you start to be grateful and focus on the positive side of your life, you will want to improve yourself – and it’s like a journey. When you improve yourself, you will start to feel all the positive energy within you. When it starts to become a routine, you will want to keep improve yourself each day. It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.

“Stop doubting yourself, work hard, and make it happen.”


Surround yourself with positive people only
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This is the most important thing, after all, you need to cut negative people out of your life. Why are you still friends with fake people? Why are you still with someone that harassing you every day? Why are you still care about what others think about you? This is your life! You are the owner of this beautiful creation God gives to you. You don’t need to think what others think about you. You don’t have to care about all those negative comments in your life. People that say you can’t do something, they are the people that are not capable of doing things, that’s why they want you to fail, so they won’t be alone. People that say you are too fat is the same person that will say you are too skinny when you lose weight. People that judge you – no matter what you do, they will always judge you. We only live once, so we don’t have time for that negativity people in our life. I know it’s hard sometimes to cut people out of your life, but if they only bring negativity to your life, don’t waste your time on them.

“Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel. Energies are contagious.”

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“Gratitude is riches. Complaint is poverty.”

– Doris Day.

Author: Valentina Laura

A dreamer & a lover.

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